My name is Jim. I’m a 45 year old man living in MN. I have been divorced going on 7 years, which is 1 year longer than the marriage, so I have that going for me. I was told by my frinds, councilors and others that I should write down some of the stuff that happens to me because it will be “cathartic” (anyone who knows me could see that she must have said that because I have never used that word in my life!) after many trials that were a success and MANY that failed, I think some of you might benefit from hearing about what happened to me along the way. Little things that helped me in this past 7 years. Through my efforts, I found out a few things that I have a knack for; one, I can cook,  and two I can always find the right music.  This blog will cover everything for setting up a great kitchen and some real good music playlists to set your comeback in motion.  This is not just for men, ladies I have found need some help as well!  So here I go embarking on a new endeavor. My mission is to create a blog that will give you the right tools to help you on your way to moving on in your life!   I hope you enjoy it.


A few things about me we should clear up, first I am not a writer! I hated doing it in college, high school, or really anytime. I was the kid who when the teachers asked if we would rather write a 2 page paper or give a 10 minute speech, I chose the speech! ADHD was the determination back then….now it helps with my profession! I write like I talk so at times this may be all over the board, if you have any questions or comments feel free to email me and I will respond in kind.



Jim